How to Find High Net Worth Investors
HNWIs (high net worth individuals) and family offices invest across asset classes with more flexibility than institutional investors. They require strong relationships and personalized approaches. Direct access is difficult without intermediaries. Timeline: 6-12 months relationship building before securing investment. HNWIs invest $100K-$10M typically, while family offices invest $2M-$50M+.
Understanding Family Office Networks
What family offices invest in: Private equity (direct investments and PE funds), real estate (commercial, development, syndications), startups (early and growth stage), and alternative investments (hedge funds, commodities, art). Long-term focus (5-10+ years) distinguishes family offices from other investors.
Family office types: Single-family offices (serve one family, $100M+ net worth typically), multi-family offices (serve multiple families, $10M-$100M net worth), and virtual family offices (outsourced services). Single-family offices provide most direct access but are most exclusive. Multi-family offices provide broader access but less direct relationships.
Access methods: Through wealth managers, advisors, attorneys, or intermediaries. Direct access difficult without relationships. Family offices protect privacy and limit direct contact. Intermediaries provide access but require relationship building (6-12 months). Cold outreach rarely works for family offices.
Family office networks: Major markets have family office associations (Family Office Association, Family Office Exchange). Membership provides networking, deal flow, and industry resources. Membership requirements vary: some require family office verification, others accept advisors. Research associations relevant to your market.
Investment criteria: Vary significantly by family office. Some focus on specific industries (technology, healthcare, real estate). Others focus on specific deal sizes ($2M-$10M vs. $10M+). Some focus on impact investing. Others focus purely on financial returns. Research family office focus before outreach.
What varies: Family office structures, investment criteria, and access methods differ significantly. Single-family offices differ from multi-family offices. Industry-focused family offices differ from generalist offices. Research individual family offices to understand focus and access methods.
Wealth Management Connections and Access
Wealth managers: Maintain HNWI relationships and facilitate introductions for qualified opportunities. Wealth managers evaluate deals before introducing to clients. They provide due diligence and deal filtering. Building relationships with wealth managers improves HNWI access. Expect 6-12 months relationship building before introductions.
Private banks: Provide access for larger deals ($5M+). Private banks (JPMorgan Private Bank, UBS Wealth Management, Goldman Sachs Private Wealth) maintain HNWI relationships. They require relationship and deal quality. Private banks provide deal structuring and due diligence support. Access requires existing banking relationships or exceptional deals.
Investment advisors: RIAs (Registered Investment Advisors) manage HNWI portfolios. They facilitate introductions for alternative investments. Building relationships with RIAs improves access. RIAs evaluate deals before introducing to clients. They provide due diligence and risk assessment.
Timeline expectations: Building wealth management relationships: 6-12 months before introductions. Wealth managers evaluate: deal quality, sponsor track record, and fit with client needs. Rushing introductions damages relationships. Patient relationship building improves access and deal quality.
Relationship building strategies: Provide value before asking: market insights, deal flow, or industry expertise. Wealth managers appreciate value-added relationships. Regular communication builds trust. One-sided relationships (only asking) don't work. Show you understand their needs and provide value.
What varies: Wealth management relationships differ by advisor type, client base, and geographic location. Major markets have more wealth managers and HNWIs. Smaller markets have fewer options. Research wealth managers relevant to your market and deal type.
HNWI Investment Criteria and Preferences
Returns and risk evaluation: HNWIs evaluate based on financial returns and personal interest. Some focus purely on returns (15-25% IRR typical). Others focus on impact or personal interest. Understanding HNWI preferences improves fit and response rates. Generic pitches don't work for HNWIs.
Deal size preferences: $100K-$10M typical for individual HNWIs. Varies by individual capacity and interest. Smaller deals ($100K-$500K) work for individual HNWIs. Larger deals ($2M-$10M) work for family offices or HNWI groups. Match deal size to investor capacity.
Personal interest factors: HNWIs may invest in industries or causes they care about. Some invest in: technology (if tech background), healthcare (if healthcare background), real estate (if real estate experience), or impact (if impact-focused). Understanding personal interests improves fit. Generic pitches get ignored.
Geographic preferences: Some HNWIs focus on local investments (same city or region). Others invest nationally or internationally. Local HNWIs prefer deals they can see and evaluate personally. Out-of-region HNWIs may require different approaches. Research geographic preferences.
Investment structure preferences: Some prefer equity (ownership stakes). Others prefer debt (loans with interest). Some prefer convertible structures. Understanding structure preferences improves fit. HNWIs are more flexible than institutional investors on structure.
What varies: HNWI criteria differ significantly by individual. Some are sophisticated investors (understand complex structures). Others are less sophisticated (prefer simple structures). Some are active (want involvement). Others are passive (want hands-off). Research individual HNWI preferences before outreach.
Approaching HNWIs Respectfully and Effectively
Cold outreach limitations: Rarely works for HNWIs. HNWIs receive many unsolicited pitches. Response rates: 1-3% for cold outreach. HNWIs prefer warm introductions through trusted sources. Cold outreach works only with exceptional businesses and strong fit. Most cold outreach gets ignored.
Warm introduction requirements: Through wealth managers, advisors, attorneys, or mutual connections. Warm introductions improve response rates (20-30% vs. 1-3% cold). Introductions must come from trusted sources. Generic introductions don't work. See our outreach templates for introduction request strategies.
Personalization essential: Show why opportunity fits their interests, background, or investment criteria. Generic pitches ignored. Personalized pitches get responses. Research HNWI background, interests, and past investments. Show you understand their preferences.
Relationship building timeline: 6-12 months before investment. HNWIs want to know you before investing. Rushing investment requests damages relationships. Patient relationship building improves access and deal quality. Immediate capital needs require other sources.
Value-first approach: Provide value before asking: market insights, deal flow, or industry expertise. HNWIs appreciate value-added relationships. Regular communication builds trust. One-sided relationships (only asking) don't work. Show you understand their needs and provide value.
Privacy and discretion: HNWIs value privacy. Respect privacy and discretion. Don't publicize relationships or investments without permission. Privacy breaches damage relationships permanently. Maintain confidentiality and professionalism.
Compliance Requirements for HNWI Fundraising

SEC compliance considerations: May require accredited investor verification depending on offering structure. Reg D exemptions (Rule 506) apply to HNWI fundraising. Rule 506(b) allows up to 35 non-accredited sophisticated investors. Rule 506(c) requires all accredited with verification. Understand which exemption applies.
Accredited investor verification: For Rule 506(c) offerings, verify accredited status. Methods: tax returns (2 years), financial statements, verification letters from CPAs/attorneys/advisors, or third-party verification services. Verification requirements vary by exemption type. See our accredited investor guide for verification methods.
Legal counsel essential: Essential for HNWI fundraising. Improper structures create liability. Securities violations carry serious penalties. Legal counsel helps: structure offerings properly, ensure compliance, and protect interests. Don't skip legal counsel to save costs.
Documentation requirements: Proper offering documents, risk disclosures, use of proceeds, financials, and terms. Missing disclosures create liability. Professional documentation protects both parties. See our due diligence guide for required documents.
State requirements: Blue sky laws vary by state. Notice filings or qualification may be required depending on investor locations. Some states have stricter requirements. Research state requirements before fundraising. Legal counsel helps navigate state requirements.
What varies: Compliance requirements differ by offering structure, investor types, and geographic locations. Accredited-only offerings have simpler compliance. Non-accredited offerings have additional requirements. Research requirements relevant to your offering structure.
Finding HNWIs Through Professional Networks
CPA and accounting firms: Maintain HNWI relationships. CPAs facilitate introductions for qualified opportunities. Building relationships with CPAs improves access. CPAs evaluate deals before introducing to clients. They provide financial due diligence and risk assessment.
Law firms: Corporate and securities attorneys maintain HNWI relationships. Attorneys facilitate introductions for qualified opportunities. Building relationships with attorneys improves access. Attorneys evaluate legal structures and compliance before introducing to clients.
Consulting firms: Strategy and management consultants maintain HNWI relationships. Consultants facilitate introductions for qualified opportunities. Building relationships with consultants improves access. Consultants evaluate business models and strategies before introducing to clients.

Industry associations: Industry-specific associations connect businesses to HNWIs. Some associations have investor networks or directories. Research associations relevant to your industry. Membership provides networking opportunities and investor access.
Geographic considerations: Major markets (NYC, LA, SF, Chicago, Miami) have more HNWIs and professional networks. Smaller markets have fewer options. Research HNWI concentration in your market. Expanding to out-of-region HNWIs may require different approaches.
What varies: Professional network access differs by market, industry, and deal type. Major markets have more professional networks. Industry-specific networks exist for some industries. Research networks relevant to your market and industry.
Common HNWI Investment Mistakes
Cold outreach without relationships: Approaching HNWIs without warm introductions. Cold outreach rarely works. HNWIs prefer warm introductions through trusted sources. Build relationships first, then ask for introductions.
Generic pitches: Not personalizing pitches to HNWI interests or background. Generic pitches get ignored. Personalized pitches get responses. Research HNWI background, interests, and past investments before outreach.
Rushing relationships: Asking for investment too quickly without relationship building. HNWIs want to know you before investing. Rushing damages relationships. Patient relationship building (6-12 months) improves access.
Missing compliance: Not ensuring proper SEC compliance and documentation. Improper structures create liability. Legal counsel essential. Don't skip compliance to save costs.
Privacy breaches: Publicizing relationships or investments without permission. HNWIs value privacy. Privacy breaches damage relationships permanently. Maintain confidentiality and professionalism.
